ahh.. i agree. I do use it, but only because knowing who did it gives me some kind of peace (it’s pathetic but sgjsk). sending a passive aggressive message, or just messaging them about it at all, is a shitty, immature, petty, and unnecessary.
that’s completely understandable! that, imo, is the perf way to use it!
but any kind of message sent, it just always ends bad, as far as i’ve witnessed.